In Family Handyman‘s series DIY Diaries, real DIYers share the projects they’re most proud of. They recount the full story—from laying out the initial plans and wrestling with frustrating setbacks to celebrating their proudest moments. These candid accounts reveal the true ins and outs of DIY, and will leave you with practical tips that’ll give you the confidence to conquer your next build.
This edition of DIY Diaries comes from within our very own community. Reader Cary Mark spoke with us about taking on a family project: a DIY deck. Mark self-describes as a DIYer who tries “to take on projects that I feel are not way over my head, but are still a bit outside my comfort zone.”
In this case, that project came about when Mark’s son reached out with a proposition. He and his wife had a large section of their yard covered by grey rock, “and they thought a deck would be better for entertaining and would be easier on bare feet.” After some back-and-forth brainstorming, Mark flew out for a week to help with the build.
The Project Stages

What was the inspiration for this project?
Mark’s goal was to “help my son build a really nice deck that he and his wife could enjoy.” This wasn’t Mark’s first deck project; that would be a different family project. Previously, “I built a ground-level deck with my brother on our childhood home with pressure-treated wood.” This time around, Mark “thought it would be fun using Trex and learning about the hardware used to attach the decking so there are no nails/screws showing on the top deck boards.”
Walk me through the stages of this DIY deck?
This project was fairly straightforward. After the design and details were hammered out, Mark’s son ordered the materials so that they arrived at the same time Mark did, and the two were able to get started right away.
The project moved quickly, too; it took “a total of two full days to complete the project, other than some minor finishing details.” Since the project came together so quickly, there weren’t any setbacks. Aside from waiting a bit for the final plugs to cover the exterior holes in the Trex boards, everything arrived on time and came together smoothly.
What’s one aspect of this project that intimidated you until you tried it?

While this project wasn’t particularly intimidating, it did involve learning a new technique. Mark says that “using hidden hardware to attach the top decking boards was new to both of us. I had only used nails on the other deck that I built years earlier.”
Are there any budgeting hacks you used?
When it comes to saving money, building a deck with Trex board, Mark found that “if you purchase a wide Trex board for the perimeter, the price is much higher than using two narrower boards and putting them together.” A little creativity and some extra time planning can go a long way towards cutting costs!
Was there a specific moment during the project where you felt the most proud?

Mark is equally proud of the timeline and the quality of the final product. It can be easy to make a small mistake or wrong measurement that doesn’t show up until the end, but in the case of this DIY deck, “the miter joints on the corners were tight, and even the very last board that we installed at the end was still running parallel with all the other deck boards.” And because the deck came together so well and so quickly, “we were able to use the deck for a Fourth of July celebration the day after it was completed!”
If you could have a do-over on this, what would you change?
That pride in craftsmanship doesn’t necessarily mean Mark wouldn’t change anything. Being a self-described perfectionist, Mark says, “I might have tried to make the very last board on the decking the same width as the other boards.” It’s not necessary, but it would have allowed for hidden hardware on the final deck board instead of the screw holes and matching plugs to cover them.
Advice to Aspiring DIYers
What’s one piece of advice you would give someone before they start a similar project?
Mark’s advice to DIYers looking to take on a project like this is to do their research first. If you “search out other people who have done this to get ideas and tips,” your planning process will go much more smoothly. Mark also says, “There are also a lot of good sources on the internet and in books.”
What project is next for you?
Mark’s next project is also set to be a family one: “My son is talking about installing a couple of underground gutter downspouts with pop-ups in his yard on my next visit out to see him, since I have done this to our house.”
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